Here's your update on ROBERT PATTINSON and KRISTEN STEWART: Rob made his first public appearance on Friday night since Kristen admitted to nailing her "Snow White" director RUPERT SANDERS. He went to a bar in Ojai, California called the Deer Lodge with some friends. A witness says, "He wasn't moping . . . He wasn't drunk. Just taking in the scene. Smoked next to him outside." An employee adds that Rob was, "enjoying the music with his friends. He seemed in good spirits." Meanwhile, Kristen has been staying with a friend named Giovanni Agnelli . . . who produced her movie "Welcome to the Rileys" and she's not doing well. A source says, "Kristen hasn't showered or changed or washed her hair in several days. She is laying around in her T-shirt and shorts and eating ice cream."
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JENNIFER LOPEZ and CASPER SMART are denying that Casper cruises for sex , gay or otherwise, at porno shops but several websites claim J-Lo is close to breaking things off with him. One source says, "They are still together. But the photos have shaken her up . . . They have not split yet, but it's fair to say they are cooling off a bit. The pictures have created a distance between them. "They are certainly very close. But he is not the love of her life. She can live without him." Another source doesn't mention those photos of Casper near a sex shop . . . but blames the "cooling off" on their age difference . . . "This isn't Jen's first tour and she has been feeling more like Casper's babysitter than girlfriend. Casper likes to hang out and party with the other dancers and that just isn't Jen's scene . . . Jen is absolutely going to break up with him, they just don't have a long term future together."
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NATALIE PORTMAN married her baby-daddy BENJAMIN MILLEPIED in a Jewish ceremony over the weekend. Natalie met Benjamin on the set of "Black Swan". He was a choreographer and had a small on-screen role. Their son Aleph is 13 months old.
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ROSIE O'DONNELL has postponed her wedding until next summer . . . because her partner Michelle Rounds is battling a rare disease called DESMOID TUMORS. Rosie describes the tumors as, "odd and curious beasts, strong and sneaky . . . a non-cancer that acts cancerous." She also says there are only 900 cases a year in the U.S. Michelle actually had surgery in June, and Rosie says she's, "getting stronger every day."
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The "Total Recall" remake made $26 million this weekend . . . but that was only good enough for 2nd place. "The Dark Knight Rises" tacked on another $36.4 million this weekend to easily take the #1 spot for a third week in a row.
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LINDSAY LOHAN and CHARLIE SHEEN are expected to star in "Scary Movie 5". Lindsay hasn't officially signed on, but every entertainment website is reporting that it's a done deal. Charlie was in the third and fourth installments. He was killed off in "Scary Movie 4" . . . but that obviously doesn't matter in a series like this. The only other person confirmed for the movie at this point is ASHLEY TISDALE, who's new to the franchise. ANNA FARIS, who has starred in every previous installment, made the wise choice to move on.
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